Wedding anniversaries: the symbolism behind each year (and the perfect piece of jewelry to celebrate)
Have you ever wondered why some friends throw a big party for their 25th wedding anniversary, while others celebrate 50 years with an intimate dinner? The answer lies in a tradition that dates back to the Middle Ages: wedding anniversaries.
The word "boda" (anniversary) comes from the Latin vota, which means "promise". And that is exactly what is celebrated at each wedding anniversary: the renewal of the promise made at the altar, the confirmation that love remains strong, day after day, year after year.
The tradition began in medieval Germany, where a silver crown was offered to couples who reached 25 years of marriage, and a gold crown to those who reached 50. Over time, symbolism was created for every year, following a simple logic: the more years of marriage, the more resistant and valuable the material that represents it.
In this article, we will explore the meanings behind each stage of marriage – and, of course, suggest the perfect piece of jewelry to celebrate each of these dates. Because love deserves to be toasted with something worthy of it.
The first decades: from fragility to solidity
1 year – Paper Anniversary
The first year of marriage is represented by paper. Why? Because the beginning of life as a couple is still fragile, full of discoveries and adjustments. Paper is a blank page, ready to be written on – and the couple is exactly at that stage, building their story together.
Suggested jewelry: a minimalist 925 silver pendant – simple and elegant for the beginning of a story. Something that symbolizes the "first chapter" they are writing together.
5 years – Wood Anniversary
Wood is a resistant and solid material, used as a structure in many constructions. At 5 years of marriage, the couple has already put down roots and the relationship has gained strength. This is the time when love is no longer a blank page, but a tree with firm roots.
Suggested jewelry: Portuguese filigree earrings – an ancestral technique that, like wood, is made to last.
10 years – Tin Anniversary
Tin is a malleable metal, representing the couple's ability to adapt, to give in, to deal with differences and daily challenges. At 10 years, the marriage is already mature, but still flexible.
Suggested jewelry: a stainless steel bracelet – as resistant as tin, but modern and versatile, ready for the years to come.
15 years – Crystal Anniversary
Crystal is transparent, solid, elegant – and that is exactly what a 15-year marriage represents. Transparency, clarity of feelings, the nobility of a relationship that has been through a lot and remains firm.
Suggested jewelry: Rainha (Queen) silver earrings – the traditional Portuguese design, with its lacy filigree that lets light through. Just like crystal.
20 years – Porcelain Anniversary
Porcelain is sophisticated and delicate, but requires care. Likewise, a 20-year marriage is the result of a lot of work, patience, and dedication. It is an achievement that deserves to be celebrated with something very special.
Suggested jewelry: a 19K Gold pendant like a Coração de Viana (Viana Heart) – the ultimate symbol of Portuguese love, to celebrate two decades of partnership.
The great celebrations: Silver, Gold, and Diamond
25 years – Silver Anniversary
This is probably the most celebrated anniversary of all. Silver is a noble metal, malleable, and strengthens when combined with other metals. And that is exactly what happens in a 25-year marriage: the couple has been through so much together that they have become a stronger, more resistant alloy.
Suggested jewelry: two renewed 925 silver wedding rings – many couples exchange rings again when they reach 25 years of marriage. And we can help you find the perfect pair.
30 years – Pearl Anniversary
Pearls form at the bottom of the sea, over years, with patience and dedication. They are rare, precious, and beautiful. At 30 years of marriage, love is also all of that: something built over time, rare, and that shines with its own light.
Suggested jewelry: a pearl necklace (of course!) or, if you prefer something more lasting, a 19K gold bracelet with pearls – the perfect balance between tradition and the preciousness of this date.
40 years – Emerald Anniversary
The emerald is a precious stone that symbolizes preserved feelings, strengthened love, and overcome adversities. Forty years of marriage is an impressive milestone – and it deserves an equally impressive piece of jewelry.
Suggested jewelry: a Portuguese Gold ring with an emerald – to symbolize everything that has been cultivated over those four decades.
50 years – Golden Anniversary
Half a century of marriage. This is the most emblematic anniversary, the one everyone knows. Gold symbolizes the nobility of the union, the richness of the story built together. It is the celebration of a love that has become precious, just like the metal.
Suggested jewelry: a new pair of 19K Gold wedding rings – to renew vows and celebrate 50 years of love. The medieval tradition of the gold crown has today transformed into the rings that symbolize that eternal love.
60 years – Diamond Anniversary
The diamond is the most precious and hardest stone in nature. At 60 years of marriage, love has reached that level: unbreakable, eternal, brilliant. The couple has been through everything and remains together.
Suggested jewelry: a pair of gold earrings with diamonds – to shine as much as the love that has united them for six decades!
And what about the other dates? Tradition hasn't forgotten them!
The tradition of wedding anniversaries is so rich that it created symbolism for every year. Curious? Here are some of the other celebrated dates:
| Years | Anniversary | Meaning | Recommended Lusijoia Jewelry |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 years | Cotton | Softness and the transformation of love | Silver filigree earrings |
| 3 years | Wheat or Leather | Prosperity and protection | Silver wheat pendant |
| 4 years | Flowers and Fruits | Love that blooms and bears fruit | Colored stone earrings |
| 6 years | Sugar or Perfume | Sweetness and harmony in the relationship | Silver bracelet with zircons |
| 7 years | Wool or Brass | Comfort and resistance | Stainless steel ring |
| 8 years | Clay or Poppy | Malleability and fertility | Filigree necklace |
| 9 years | Ceramic or Wicker | Patience and harmony | Small Rainha earrings |
| 11 years | Steel | Stability and strength | Stainless steel bracelet |
| 12 years | Silk or Onyx | Elegance and depth | Silver necklace with onyx |
| 13 years | Lace or Linen | Sincerity and delicacy | Silver lace earrings |
| 14 years | Ivory | Longevity and durability | Silver ring with vegetable ivory |
| 16 years | Tourmaline | Joy and vibrant colours | Bracelet with tourmaline |
| 17 years | Rose | Love and passion | Gold rose brooch |
| 18 years | Turquoise | Protection and good luck | Necklace with turquoise |
| 19 years | Aquamarine | Beauty and tranquillity | Aquamarine earrings |
| 21 years | Zircon | Resistance and trust | Gold ring with zircon |
| 22 years | Crockery | Enduring the phases of marriage | Silver set |
| 23 years | Straw | Renewal and versatility | Silver straw bracelet |
| 24 years | Opal | Shine and reflection | Opal ring |
| 26 years | Alexandrite | Adaptability and value | Alexandrite necklace |
| 27 years | Chrysoprase | Rarity and value | Chrysoprase pendant |
| 28 years | Haematite | Courage and protection | Haematite ring |
| 29 years | Grass | Healing and harmony | Silver grass set |
| 31 years | Mother of Pearl | Resistance and shine | Mother of pearl earrings |
| 32 years | Pine | Honesty and longevity | Pine medal |
| 35 years | Coral | Strength and colour | Coral necklace |
| 45 years | Sapphire or Platinum | Stability and preciousness | Sapphire ring |
| 55 years | Amethyst | Harmony and evolution | Amethyst earrings |
| 65 years | Black Pearl | Rarity and exoticism | Black pearl necklace |
| 70 years | Wine | Maturation and flavour | Silver goblets |
| 75 years | Diamond | Consolidation of love | Diamond ring |
| 80 years | Oak | Nobility and resistance | Oak brooch |
| 85 years | Sunflower | Loyalty and vitality | Sunflower earrings |
| 90 years | Poplar | Resistance to intense temperatures | Gold wedding rings |
| 95 years | Sandalwood | Spiritual connection and longevity | Sandalwood necklace |
| 100 years | Jequitibá | The longevity of immortal love | Silver trophy |
The right jewelry for your anniversary
At Lusijoia, we believe that every wedding anniversary deserves to be celebrated with something worthy of the date. That's why we have a special selection of jewelry for each type of anniversary:
- Stainless steel jewelry – modern, resistant, perfect for the 11th anniversary (and for everyday wear).
- 925 Silver jewelry – elegant, versatile, ideal for the 25th anniversary.
- 19K Gold jewelry – the Portuguese tradition, certified by INCM, for the 50th anniversary and beyond.
- Precious stone jewelry – for the 40th, 45th, 55th, 60th anniversaries and all those that deserve extra sparkle.
Conclusion: love is celebrated every day
Wedding anniversaries are much more than a list of materials. They are moments to pause, to look back and see the path travelled. They are the perfect opportunity to say "yes" again, to remember why we chose that person for life.
And at Lusijoia, we are here to help eternalize those moments. With handmade jewellery, jewellery with soul, jewellery with the certification that guarantees quality, and with the passion that only those who love Portuguese jewellery have.
" And you? Have you celebrated any of these anniversaries? Which piece of jewellery did you choose to mark your date? Share your story with us.
We would love to hear it (and who knows, inspire those who are yet to celebrate). "
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